Ghana Youth

"I wish boys would treat me as me!! I wish I could find someone who really cared about me, and not just about the way I look, especially because I have rather large breasts. More often than not, their only desire is to look and have a feel of them. Sometimes, I feel like asking whether they are kids who want to play with balloons. My!! I'm more than that.

I wish boys would try to talk more. Often they just don't say anything , and that can be embarassing. All they think you should do is KISS and all that, but I want to have proper conversation; the more we talk, the better we get to know each other.

Most guys who ask me out are interested in just 'one thing', even those who call themselves Christians. I get really fed up being pushed to have SEX all the time, I wish that they could understand that.

I want to have a good relationship, doing things that will not get us too physically involved or intimate. But they only want to do 'one' thing. I wish boys were a bit more caring. Most of them say they're in "LOVE", but do not really mean it. I don't even think they understand what it means to be in love. I've been let down so many times. I'm getting really fed up with it. So I'm very careful who I choose to go out with. I make my stand very clear. I'm more interested in friendship right now.